Romans 8:37 - "No,
in all these things we are more than conquerors through Him who loved us".
According to the verse in Romans
8:37, God designed you as His child, not to be a loser in your life. The verse
affirms that God designed and created you with a potential to be a winner.
Let’s have a closer look at the story about you and me: during sexual
intercourse, about 300 million sperms fight the battle of conception, and only
one will survive, become an embryo, and born as a baby. In other words, you and
I are winners, even before we were born.
Then if God has designed human being
with a potential to be a winner, but after they grow mature, some of them have
not become "something" that they are intended to be, what is the root
cause of it? I believe all people in this world does not like to lose, and
never plan to be a loser in their life. However, somehow some people end up in
this unpleasant condition.
Based on my experience winning is
not an instant thing. No one in this world, directly can run right after they
are born. Babies need to go through a series of processes and growth before they
can walk their first step, then many steps - with unbalance walk then stable
ones and eventually they can run. During this learning process, they experience
many unpleasant situations, such as falling to the ground, stumbling against
the wall or tripping over other hard objects, not only once but hundreds, or
may be thousands of times. However, whenever they fall, they have courage to
try again, again and again. Until finally they are strong enough to stand, walk
and finally run.
I don't know when exactly a
person develop fear to fail and give up attitudes. Being a senior high school
teacher, I often heard that my students complain that they cannot do this and
that, because it is difficult. Instead of trying to go through the learning
process, they’ve just given up. In fact, some of them have not reached their
17th, they've already felt defeated when encounter difficulties. One thing I
always remind my students, a theory that I usually call it "50%
winning" theory. The theory is like this, when we give a try we’ve already
gained 50% of chance to win, then we only need to earn another 50%. On the
other hand, if we refuse to give an effort, it means we never have a chance to
win.
What actually that made people
refuse to give a try? Here are my guesses, first, maybe because they hesitate
to give a try, second, maybe having difficulties to let their faith win, and
the third, one maybe afraid to fail.
What's wrong with these three points? First, hesitate to give a try, see in Proverbs 10:4 (NIV) say that, "Lazy hands make for poverty, but diligent hands bring wealth", so, if we develop this character we definitely would end up with losing in our life. There is a Chinese saying, 努力不一定成功，不努力一定失败 (Nǔlì bù yīdìng chénggōng, bù nǔlì yīdìng shībài) which means “Work hard does not necessarily can bring you success, but if don’t work hard, you will fail”. Hence, doing nothing will not help our life progress.
Second, difficulties to let their
faith win, which means, we may have lack of confidence that our God is able to
help us succeed? One of God’s character is Omnipotent, which means having
unlimited power, able to do anything. One of the reasons maybe we have not
known our God better, hence we hesitate to ask for help to our God.
The last one is afraid to fail.
From the fact of how a baby learns to walk, we know that winning is a process.
Throughout the process, it is highly possible that we would encounter obstacles
and hardship, so it is useless to avoid it. Hence, it is better we make an
anticipation action to encounter these obstacles.
In summary, a winner is not a
person who never fails or a perfect person or a person who never had a problem
in his/her life. A winner is a person who fails but has the courage to rise and
fight until he/she succeeds. So why should we be afraid to fail, as long as we
want to rise again, it will not be a matter anymore. A winner is a person full
of perseverance through every test in his/her life without complaints, until
he/she redeems what God has promised. Becoming a winner or a loser, I would
like to open those options for you to choose.
Choose wisely. (",")
"WINNING IS NOT A SOMETIME
THING; IT’S AN ALL TIME THING. YOU DON’T WIN ONCE IN A WHILE, YOU DON’T DO
THINGS RIGHT ONCE IN A WHILE, YOU DO THEM RIGHT ALL THE TIME. WINNING IS HABIT.
UNFORTUNATELY, SO IS LOSING". - Vince Lombardi.
